Monday, August 23, 2010

Digging a basement under my house sounds risky.....is there any advice centre who could help?

Fred West?Digging a basement under my house sounds risky.....is there any advice centre who could help?
Call a professional house mover to come and jack the house up.they have all the right equipment and it will be alot easier for the digging and pouring of concreteDigging a basement under my house sounds risky.....is there any advice centre who could help?
yes, it does sound risky if ur talking about digging under ur existing house. their is a high chance of ur house collapsing unless u drive pillar foundations along the perimeter of the building below the depth of the proposed basement. even at that it would be risky and costly.





if there is space at the front or preferbly the rear of ur house, u could dig a basement in that ground and lead it up to the house and then cover over with watever was originally there eg. landscaped garden but not large trees.





it would be a lot cheaper and is wat i would do
Check out www.npda.co.uk.





Its the national property developers association so I'm sure someone there will be able to advise you.





You can become a member (for free) and ask in the forum.





Hope this helps
have a look at a song ';the miners dream of home';


try the NCB
The Builder's Association in London, they have an information office.
i would ask a builder mate
You need a structural engineer and a specialist underpinning company.





To start to dig a basement without specialist advice is crazy.





The foundations of your house may only be 750mm below ground level. A foundation relies on a ne effective bearing caparity of your sub-soil beneath it imagine a huge bulb like pressure beneath your foundation spreading out at 45 degrees. As you dig out you are effectively halving the bearing capacity of the soil, all manner of problems occur, your excavation can collapse at any moment effectively demolishing your house, you can hit running sand ( a layer of sand saturated with water it's stable whilst contained but as soon as you release the pressure you can turn that sand layer into an unstoppable stream destabilising large areas, the only cure is to literally pump tonnes of concrete into the ground.





1. it's quite a bad idea, try and think of a better way to extend your house.





2. if you must do it, get a structural engineer to ascertain your sub soil make up.





3. employ a specialist under pinning company.





4. cross your fingers and prepare to write some large cheques especially if it goes wrong.








Good Luck!!

What advice can you give a minister; who really wants to help people in the military?

join up or shut upWhat advice can you give a minister; who really wants to help people in the military?
pray, it works. provide support in other ways easier to see, like sending care packages, letters, or visiting military families. great question!What advice can you give a minister; who really wants to help people in the military?
Please join the military to understand before helping the people in the military.
Other people pretty much hit it. You can become a military chaplain. I'm a line officer, so I have no idea how that works, but I'm assuming a recruiter can give you some basic info. If you've got a degree in some sort of divinity studies (is that even the right term?) you should be good to go. If you're looking for the opportunity to get up close and personal and really touch people, there's no better way to go about doing it.





If joining the military isn't the life for you, there's a bunch of other options too. I have no idea what a Christian Military Fellowship is, but how about this? Start working with your congregation on a project to send care packages. Not just toothpaste and deodorant and baby-wipes--do some research and see what's truly in demand. Heck, collect letters and send them over. Mail call is a HUGE morale boost when you actually get mail, no matter who it's from. Adopt a unit if you've got enough people willing. Work on community outreach to bolster your offering. A quick google should turn up a ton of charitable organizations looking for people to help in this matter. Start there, and if you get the hang of it, strike out on your own.
Military folks need pastoral care, they are going through severe stress, family separation, and are young enough not to know how to work with a bureaucracy. Any organization or person that can help with those kind of needs is a wonderful gift to a military community.





What they don't need are evangelists. As a former NCO I saw a lot of chaplains and chaplain assistance alienate soldiers by being more interested in evangelism than pastoral care. The kids that haven't made up their minds about religion will feel a lot better about receiving help than by being ordered to go to chapel.
I would tell him...Grow up and dont send your men to any war..and let them die!!..the only war they would die in ...is the war to repel any DIRECT attack on the States!!
You have two choices. You can become a military chaplain--which may mean you need more schooling or not; but it's the best way to put yourself in with the trooops; or you can join a mission which serves military men. There is one called Christian Military Fellowship, I think. You can find it through the internet.
Keep in mind that this is a volunteer army.. what does that mean? It means that they are well paid.... and the benefits are great monetarily and that is the reason why people want to go in and to re-up when their tour is done. AND.. when i Iraq, their pay is nearely doubled
Sign up for the Chaplins Corps, they are needing Chaplins real bad now. They have a program for Chaplins now. Go online to militarychaplin.com, I think or go to military.com and they would be able to direct you to the proper website.
Become a chaplain.


The military really needs you - especially in these times.


God bless you.

Confused and in need of advice. Can you help?

I work for someone who is a very influencial and upstanding leader in my country and, more particularly, the field I am currently pursuing. He is very close to the family and has played a tremendous role in many aspects of my life. He constantly provides assistance for which I am very grateful. I feel however, that I need to develop a personal sense of independence and want to discontinue working for him. Based on past events, I know that resigning from this job could lead to bitter relations that may affect my future career. I would like to begin working in another location---one in which he has no meaningful influence.





Your views and suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you..Confused and in need of advice. Can you help?
Are you close enough to explain what you just said to him? This person might understand more then you know if you explain how grateful you are and just want to streatch your wings a bit.


You say ';Based on past events'; that this could go sour. I guess you have to be prepared to accept going out on your own will be just that...going alone . If you want this badly and have the resources to do so then go for it. You never know, it might be the best thing you ever did. Wont be easy....but might be worth it. GL!Confused and in need of advice. Can you help?
YVW and gl!

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Please think about talking to him. Why create bad will when possibly yiou can achieve goodwill? Can you achieve personal Independence still with his company, just in a different position, away from his influence and assistance?
I would get all the experience I could working for him for the time being.





Talk to him about your career aspirations, and ask his advice. Do not resign at this time. Get his buy-in, and his advice, which you have said is valuable.





Let him know you would like more independence, and ask if he has any projects you could do with an increased level of autonomy from him.





Good luck! You are lucky to have a mentor, please make the most of it!!
just tell him you are thinking you need to develope a sense of independence. I just say tell the truth, but dont say I dont want to work for you anymore. say it in a nicer way.
If he is truly close to the family have someone you trust and he is close to feel him out in this respect. If he genunely cares for you or your faamily he won't feel threatened that you want to strike out and make it on your own. he will feel as if he is giving his blessing to the venture and therefore still retain a sense of control. If you do it without his prior knowledge, he may feel slighted and that you are ungrateful. Good luck.
If this man is as ';upstanding'; as you say, then sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with him. Do not let fear get the best of you. Take action to overcome your fear. Explain to him how you're feeling, how instrumental he's been in getting you to this point, and how blessed you've been to be mentored and prepared for this moment of your life. He should understand that there's a point where every eagle must leave its nest and fly. Emphasize your gratitude for his relationship and how knowing him has prepared you for this next step of your life, to start a new thing. If he is a true leader, he will understand and give you his blessing as you enter this next stage of your life.
Wish I have someone to look over my shoulders and be there to help me when I fail. You shouldn't feel that you individuality is limited. Ask him for advice to branch out from what you are doing now and may be he will find you a post away from his authority.
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  • I need some flirting/dating advice. Help?

    I'm going to the movies this weekend with a guy I like as well as a bunch of our friends. I think he likes me, but sometimes he acts the same way around other girls. How can I find out without being too obvious? Should I try to be more flirtatious at the movies? Or is he just playing the field? Help please!I need some flirting/dating advice. Help?
    be a little flirty at the movies by like sitting next to him and walkin near him when ur walkin around ... and like what id do is throw some popcorn at him in like a flirty way (make sure he wont freek out 1st)





    goodluckk i hope i helpedd!

    I need your advice on baby cribs. Can you help?

    I am a furniture designer and I am interested in creating a nursery line. Do you Moms/Dads have any suggestions on how to make my cribs more convenient for you? I love modern furniture, so definitely this


    line will be modern as well. I am also planing to make it eco-friendly, and convertible (crib-daybed). What would you like to see in the future cribs? Any problems with you current cribs, suggestions? THANK


    YOU!I need your advice on baby cribs. Can you help?
    I know a lot of parents don't feel that the sliding rails on cribs are really safe, so what if instead of the rail sliding down the top piece (like a foot or two) kind of folded down and then locked into place. I don't think I've ever seen a crib that did that so it might be a rather unique feature.I need your advice on baby cribs. Can you help?
    We have now bought a crib for our son (due in April). Its an antique white four-poster crib- very pretty.





    We originally looked at the Chelsea Sleigh Crib made by Bratt decor (we wanted the silver one) but had issues with communicating with their company (they are east coast, we are west coast, and work full time so it was just too tough to correspond).





    I think new parents (well, at least if they are like us) are wanting new styles of cribs. I absolutely did not want a common looking crib, I didn't want basic that every other baby has. The selection at stores near us (Babies R' Us, Segals, etc) was pitiful at best. I wasn't interested in paying $500 for a crib that looked like a crib that every kid will have and is made of particle board. No thanks.





    So I think its important to have good contact with your customers (if they're on the west coast and you the east don't make them call 12 times just to order a catalog and your ';forget'; to send it, its tough for them to call during business hours). Use quality products to make the furniture (not particle board, people don't want to spend much money on particle board). And give ';different'; styles, don't make cribs that look like what every baby on the block has.





    Those are just my suggestions.
    wow i really wish cot/crib sides could be high my baby since 18 months could climb out of his he can open safety gates to so he can get out of the rooms i had to take the door handle of so he cant get out. he sleeps in my room i would not lock him on the room by himself

    I need a computer professional's help and advice on putting together my own computer. What add-ons are best?

    I've been trying to find out what's best for the kind of computer I need to put together (I want to buy the parts and get it assembled). I have/play lots of computer games (30 to be exact), but only 19 are installed. What specific add-on should I get for more room/space (hard-drive space right)? It takes a long time for the game to load when I click on it. What specific add-on should I buy to make it work faster and load faster (I want it amazingly fast. ram and processor right?). And when I'm playing multi-player or even just me it lags and freezes (you know how frustrating that can be. What can I do/buy to stop this?). I play a lot of games (Counter-Strike, Half-Life, The Ship) that require a graphics card. Which graphics card will give me amazing graphics that I will be amazed by? I also want to hear every single thing clear as light. What sound card will give me surround superior hearing? This is my dream computer, someone please give me advice and help on what add-ons to buy.I need a computer professional's help and advice on putting together my own computer. What add-ons are best?
    Probably a easy place to find all the hardware you need is www.newegg.com





    If you want the latest and greatest, you might want to check out the latest Intel cpus since I think they are performing faster than the current AMD cpus(Only right now that is :)


    However, I recommend AMD over Intel, but that is only because they've been cheaper as a price comparison vs speed.





    The best heat sink out from what I found is the Ultra 120 by Thermalright. You are going to need this or another good heatsink/fan!!! Important!





    If your staying with a 32bit XP or Vista, you will only be able to use a max of 4Gb of ram. So don't go out and but 20Gb of ram =P~





    When looking for Hard drives, get a SATA300 or sometimes called SATA 3Gbps type drive. Also get a large 500Gb sized drive if you plan to keep all those games installed at one time. You may want to keep at least 2 separate drives, one smaller one for your OS and another for your games.(This will help loading) Also you can learn about how to RAID your hard drives for even more speed but there are some risks.





    For motherboards, I recommend ASUS. There are some good overclocking features on the ASUS boards. Also you might want to get a motherboard that has SLI feature, so you can use 2 identical video cards(must support this feature) at the same time.(share the load)





    For your video card(s), go with NVIDIA. I think the GeForce


    8800 Ultra is the latest and greatest.





    Best sound card for games is the Sound Blaster X-Fi Elite.





    Oh, and get a nice case. I recommend a Aerocool tower.(I have this one http://www.aerocool.us/p-case/masstige/masstige.htm )


    Also get a high wattaged power supply, if your going to have 2 video cards, usb devices, and lots of hard drives, you might want a 500 to 700 watt power supply also.





    Hope this helps!I need a computer professional's help and advice on putting together my own computer. What add-ons are best?
    How much do you think all these things will add up to costing? I'm trying to stick in the 1000-1500$ range.

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    It is definetely going to cost you at least $1000~$1500, but more realisticlly for the best machine, your looking more towards $2000.

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    I went to newegg.com and just picked some top seller items to get a idea and it was about $1,700 for everything using a AMD cpu/motherboard. You can always adjust your price by looking at different brands or maybe you dont really need a case that has 50 neon lights :)

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    Always look at the reviews that people post about each product so you know what kinda problems you might run into. Also it helps to find out if you really need something extra that they don't specify ';on the box'; or something like that.

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    Also your question about 20Gb of ram?... Well I wanted to make sure so I checked some sites and they do sell servers that support memory far higher than 20Gb... The one I saw supported up to 64Gb of ram. I'm sure they might go higher too.

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    Windows Vista Ultimate vs Windows XP SP2


    Right now I think Vista might be slighty behind only because of driver issues. Here are some reviews.


    http://www.extremetech.com/article2/0,1697,2090571,00.asp


    http://www.extremetech.com/article2/0,1697,2096940,00.asp

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    I would say you probably will be ok to go for Vista Ultimate, because devices/software will become more compatible as time goes on. Its pretty much like this everytime a new OS comes out.





    Also make sure to read up on a 32bit vs 64bit OS. There are some things to consider.

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    The best place to do research for parts is www.tomshardware.com





    However, if you aren't really sure about what you're doing, then you might want to get a pre-built system. If you just go and order parts, you might end up getting incompatible parts and not have a functional computer.
    It sounds like you're describing exactly what I was looking for about 2 months ago. I got tired of my parent's no-memory, slow, laggy, bad-looking, bad-sounding computer, plus I had just gotten a great job, so I could afford a new computer. First, hard drive memory: for you and your thirty games, it sounds like the bigger the hard drive, the better. I don't know what you know about computers, but I'm going to be plain and simple. Harddrive space is measured in gigabytes (Gb). When I purchased my computer I went for the 100 Gb drive. But I don't play near the amount of games you do (some... but not 30). You may want 120 or 150 Gb. Now, RAM (otherwise known as ';physical memory';, it's used when loading and running applications.) The same goes for RAM, the bigger the better. But RAM usually doesn't exist as big as 150 Gb. The limitations on RAM are decided by the operating system of the computer. Windows XP can usually only go to 2 Gb. When I was deciding this for my laptop, I knew I was going to have Windows Vista (I don't know the limit on RAM for Vista) so I chose 4 Gb (trust me, it's blinding fast). As I said, the more the better, which is how computers are in general. As for the lagging when you're playing online, you'll need a good Internet Service Provider (ISP). It doesn't matter how good your computer is, you're only as fast as the slowest component in your computer. I prefer Cox, they're reliable, and fast. And they don't spy on you (check my references). I also picked the Intel Duo Core 2 processor. In short, it IS 2 processors. It can multi-task better then other processors. That's good. Graphics card... XFX 7950 GX2 Quad SLI. It looks like alphabet soup right? You get used to it... It's designed for high resolution (big moniter) game play. Not cheap, but the best never is. Sound card: Sound Blaster X-Fi Platinum. A little research shows that this should fit the bill. Check the stats on it. Another thing you didn't mention in your question, but is very important, is the Operating System choice. I'm sure you've seen the PC vs Mac commercials and heard all sorts of slander against Windows Vista. I'm not here to sell it to you, but I like Windows Vista Home Premium Edtion 64-bit (avoid Home Basic at ALL COSTS, it's crap). Backwards compatibility isn't as much a problem as some people make it out to be. The GUI (windows, task bar, and all other visual aspects) has been improved and the all around stability in the Operating System is great. I went to a Vista Convention awhile back and they deminstrated the difference between Windows XP's best graphics and Windows Vista's best graphics. Needless to say, Vista was gorgeous. XP was just great... :) My laptop was $5k, and I didn't get the best sound card, my video card is phenomenal (not as good as the one I mentioned though), a 100 Gb hard drive, 4 Gb of the second best RAM I could find (it's a laptop... the best RAM would use a lot of battery power.), Windows Vista Home Premium, 17'; display, and CD-R/DVD player. I can't give you an estimate on how much your computer will cost... but it'll be more expensive then mine.
    You need at least 2GB of ram, and an 8000 series nvidia graphics card.





    8800gts, 8600, etc.





    also if you're buying a complete system make sure you get a Core 2 Duo cpu with at least 4 MB of cache.

    Why is my Hp Laptop's screen pitch black?!Please help i really need advice?

    I turn it on and the monitor screen is pitch black i really need some help please help me !! do you know what i can do ? If u do tell me step by step cuz im not a computer person thx!Why is my Hp Laptop's screen pitch black?!Please help i really need advice?
    The back light is not on...possibly burned out...





    Can you make out a really dark image when u look at it closely...if so then the back light is out.Why is my Hp Laptop's screen pitch black?!Please help i really need advice?
    I had the exact same problem the lights blew in the screen and you will need to go get it repaired, may take a few days but then it will be fine after that :).

    My son is really having trouble remembering his spelling he in the 2nd grade and advice on what would help him?

    Flash cards, give him a toy or a reward when he gets a good grade it worked for me with my parentsMy son is really having trouble remembering his spelling he in the 2nd grade and advice on what would help him?
    Reading! Reading helps a lot when you are learning to spell. Buy him his favourite comic books or fun kids magazines. Let him pick out his own books at the store or library. Make it fun for him, a present not an ';educational tool';.





    I could explain why it helps for hours, but just trust me!

    Advice to help me talk less?

    I'm OCD, and when I am nervous, I talk up a storm. The problem is, I'm usually nervous about something or another and therefore always talk. The more I talk, the more uncomfortable people get around me, which makes me talk even more. I want to try to stop, but cannot go on meds because of prexisting health conditions. Any advice?Advice to help me talk less?
    I have some advice. STOP TRYING TO CHANGE FOR OTHER PEOPLE!.Whew. The people who get uncomfortable are the ones with the problem and it sounds like you need to meet people who like to talk. I really like to talk and I really don't care if someone doesn't like that about me. I'll just find someone who enjoys good conversation. Problem solved.Advice to help me talk less?
    WHATS OCD? i think the first thing you should do is calm down.Try doing yoga excercises, breathe in and out.honestly sometimes its part of your personality and you cant change it, but it isnt bad to be talkative, i am talkative myself and i love having people around who are talkative.Hope i helped.:)
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  • When I go Clubbing, my bangs get curly! HELP?! ADVICE?!?

    I always blow dry my bangs straight, but then when I go out dancing and get sweaty, they curl and look terrible. how can I prevent this?When I go Clubbing, my bangs get curly! HELP?! ADVICE?!?
    I have the same problem and it drives me bananas. The only thing I have found that remotely helps me is to buy some Aussie Instant Freeze Hairspray. Spray the crap out of them puppies. It still won't be flawless, but at least they won't spring up like a french poodle.When I go Clubbing, my bangs get curly! HELP?! ADVICE?!?
    There's really no way to prevent it unless you style them differently (up or back) using clips, headband, scarf, etc. The reason this happens is that dry heat is used to straighten them, and humidity/moisture undoes the process.





    In all my experience, product works slightly, but not as well as I'd like. So you can try using hairspray when straightening your bangs for extra hold, but I can't promise it'll work.
    that is very annoying! you cant do too much to prevent it except pin em back and what not. if you wear makeup put more oil absorbing powder on your forward to absorb any sweat/oil and prevent it from getting your bangs wet which is why they curl up
    Blow dry them straight and then flat iron them. This should help them stay longer, but to make sure they stay all night spray them with hairspray. Big Sexy Hair Hairspray is the best hairspray ever!





    Hope this Helps! %26lt;3
    You should blow dry your bangs and also straighten them, then put a lot of hairspray on them and or mousse and they will stay straight =)
    you could always clip them up or wear a stylish headband, but put it on so that the bangs still show, you know what i mean?

    Where can I get advice to get help with debt settlement companies that take your money? Payed nothing!?

    if you have signed a contract you are out of luck -- if not just do not pay them any more money!!! chalk up the loss to experience!!!Where can I get advice to get help with debt settlement companies that take your money? Payed nothing!?
    Debt settlement companies will generally pay nothing until you have enough funds accumulated to settle debts. Since most banks will not deal with them (Bank of America, Chase, GE Money, HSBC, and Citi), I would suggest asking for your money back. If they refuse, contact the attorney general of both your state and the state in which they are located (Generally TX, CA, FL, or MA). Good Luck!

    Relationship advice help?

    ok so im 15 and ive been in a relationship for about 1year and 8months and i need some advice. i love my gf alot but theres some problems she controls me all the time and gets mad if i hang out with my friends which i think is stupid. she also gets mad cuz i have sooo much soccer but i dont want her to do stuff with other guys so is it time to end it or no?Relationship advice help?
    I think at fifteen, your relationship is probably past the whole super exciting fun stage, and into the portion where you don't actually know what the other one wants, and it's more of a pain than nice. I think a relationship that long for your age is remarkable, but it's probably time to end it.Relationship advice help?
    Well, you should talk to her about it. Just tell her and if she still doesn't agree with you then, i would end it. But it should turn out okay.

    Hair advice, help please?

    i have dyed my hair blonde and brown in the past couple years but i cant decide which color i should stick with. i currently have brown hair with blonde highlights because i couldnt make up my mind lol. i have tan skin (not extremely but i do live in FL) and i have hazel eyes brown and green.





    any suggestions on which color would fit me better? thanks!Hair advice, help please?
    Oh my gosh! I had the same problem! Except now I'm debating about blonde and red...haha. Okay well here's my opinion:





    I like brown hair because it's not AS bad for your hair, and it makes it look shinier (in my opinion).





    Blonde can still look gorgeous though! Which is so hard!








    Well I think that -not dark brown- but a light brown would look really good with your eyes. Maybe ask your family and friends on their opinions!








    I hope helped in some way!Hair advice, help please?
    i think blonde hair would look nice on you and go with your hazel eyes. hope i helped =)

    Friends advice help please?

    i fell out with my friends at christmas last year, all because of gossip and we were all drifting apart from college but i really miss them and would love to make up with them, any advise?Friends advice help please?
    get in contact again, meet up








    answer mine?(:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArHEKCYXFZxPeNiqC_brPBbsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090307040247AAR9cFDFriends advice help please?
    meet them somewhere...


    luk in their eyes and say sorry and say how much u miss them... be very serious


    god noes they might miss u 2..


    come on they are or were ur frends....they might accept ur apology


    hope i helped
    gossip does cause lots of problem..


    but i think u should act normal..


    n just talk to them like nothing had happen..


    i've experienced this things...


    it stress me up!


    n i just act normal n they finally talk to mE!!
    yep get a life
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  • Job advice? Help? Australia?

    Can you give me ideas for jobs I could do and might like?


    Ive just turned 18, i only finished year 11.


    I had planned on doing carpentry but i have lost interest in it after a year of trying to find a good employer.


    I am Art (drawing, painting, sculpting) and Music (listen to music 24/7, play 3 instruments





    I really dont know what i want to do, i have been turned down for all jobs ive applied for so far (mostly labouring jobs and coles and bunnings etc)Job advice? Help? Australia?
    seek.com.au has good advice on job getting a job. Hope that helps!

    Buddhism advice, help! newcomer to the philosophy, need enlightenment.?

    okay, SO. i have a book about buddhism that i haven.t quite cracked into yet, but i just want to know what are some of the constraints of being buddhist? it sounds like something amazing to live by, like the four noble truths %26amp;%26amp; karma %26amp;%26amp; it all just makes so much sense.





    i just want to know if there are any things i shouldn.t be doing if buddhist.





    i heard that killing anything is a no-no. any more? like... cussing, drinking, etc.


    thanks :]Buddhism advice, help! newcomer to the philosophy, need enlightenment.?
    many buddhists adhere to the ';5 precepts'; which are:





    no killing





    no stealing





    no sexual misconduct (outside of marriage or its equivalent- but like christianity this definition differs from organization to organization)





    no consumption of intoxicants





    no lying





    you can follow one, or as many as you choose to. in the Chinese Mahayana tradition many organizations have a specific ceremony where you can ';皈依'; or ';take refuge'; and become an ';official'; practitioner with a teacher. The 5 precept ceremony is often conducted afterwards for those who chose to partake. It's not obligatory, just recommended.Buddhism advice, help! newcomer to the philosophy, need enlightenment.?
    Like most spiritual traditions, Buddhism has lists of approved/disapproved behaviors (see the link below).





    But the real point of Buddhism is not blind faith in the teaching of others (including the teaching of the Buddha).





    Instead, Buddhism encourages us to pay close attention to our own lives.





    When we study ourselves in this careful way, we discover that many of the things that we think make us happy (getting high, buying a new iPod, gossiping about someone) actually don't produce any lasting happiness at all.





    And, many of our behaviors, while they might produce a short-term good feeling, have the final result of creating more suffering (for ourselves and/or for others).





    And, of course, we all make mistakes. Mistakes are wonderful because they create the opportunity to learn more about ourselves - if we choose to look.





    So I hope you'll continue down the path of Buddhism - crack that book and begin to meditate - so you can discover more about your wonderful life! Best wishes on your path.
    The basic point of Buddhism is to be released from suffering, and to not cause suffering. Take some time to think of any actions you might take that causes suffering in any way and do your best to cut those things out of your life. As desiring things we can't have also causes suffering, prioritizing our wants is important too. It's not worth getting upset because we can't have something trivial. Just don't even bother wanting it.
    Im glad another person in the world is turning to Buddhism now.


    I like Buddhism because i dont need to follow ';commandments'; but i can follow ';guide lines'; and if i want to lead a good like ill follow them.








    To be honest. I like the way that Buddha did things, he was not a hater, and he was a peaceful prince. He did not call himself God. Buddha is not a God. Buddhist refer to him as God.








    Anything to harm nature is a no no. So some Buddhist dont eat meat, because they refer to that as harming natuure, but dont worry. I believe in BUddhism and i still eat meat.
    WHY U WANT TO SPOIL UR PHILOSOPHY BY ATTACHING TO THE RELIGIONS.





    A KID KNOWS WELL THAT NO RELIIGION TEACH'S BAD IN THE FACE OF THE EARTH.





    EVERY RELIGIONS SAYS STEALING, DRUGS, ADULTRY, KILLING NOT ONLY HUMAN EVEN TO BIRDS %26amp; ANIMALS. ALL RELIGIONS SAYS THIS IS BAD AND THE EVIL FOOT STEP.


    CAN U TELL ME ANY ONE RELIGION SAYS THIS ALL THINGS ABOVE WHICH I MENTION DOING IS GOOD.





    OKAY NOW TELL ME WHAT IF ANYBODY DO THIS CRIMES.


    EVERY RELGION SAYS DONT DO THIS THAT ETC.


    BUT WHICH RELIGION MENTION THE PUNISHMENT IN THEIR HOLY SCRIPTURE.





    FOR ADULTRY THERE IS PUNISHMENT


    FOR KILLING THERE IS PUNISHMENT


    FOR THEFT THERE IS PUNISHMENT


    FOR ALL CRIMES THERE IS PUNISHMENT TO BE GIVEN FOR SUCH CRIMINALS.





    IF U DONT KNOW THAN I WILL TELL U THAT RELGION IS ISLAM.


    ONLY ISLAMS MENTION THE PUNISHMENT FOR THE CRIMINALS TO BE GIVEN.
    Its pretty easy.


    No killing, stealing, sexual cruelty, no harsh speech, no alcohol or drugs.


    Best wishes on your path.


    If you are interested in pursuing buddhism further I recommend a qualified teacher to guide you.


    My lama's website is referenced below.


    om mani padme hum
    Drinking and doing drugs are huge no-nos, drugs especially. You don't have to be a teetotaler on the alcohol: A glass of wine at parties or a beer or two at a cookout is OK. Alcoholism, however, is not.
    Depends whether you want to follow what the Buddha taught or one of the religions called 'Buddhism'. there are big differences between the two.
    I think there are constraints on how much black eye liner you can use.
    If Buddha practised what he preached, how come he was so obese?

    Need uplifting quotes/advice to help me stay motivated...I have to put plans on hold...?

    Due to personal reasons,by goals of finishing my Bachelor's,becoming independent,getting an apartmen,a car, just living the life I planned etc.... has to be put on hold because of someone else's selfishesness...long story.Any advice/quotes?Need uplifting quotes/advice to help me stay motivated...I have to put plans on hold...?
    F*ck it. I'm doing some work.Need uplifting quotes/advice to help me stay motivated...I have to put plans on hold...?
    quotes are temporary...youll never change the way your brain functions in an instant long term. Get me? Your situation sounds like life, and im sorry about our generation because we were all raised with too much praise which equals difficulty getting through hard time because we think were a failure instantly. Makes sense.

    Acting advice...help?

    do you think someone that cant makefacial exoressions that much (due to a facial paralisis on one side) can become an actress?? please, be honestActing advice...help?
    facial expressions are not the key to good acting. the way your express the meaning and emotion of the lines is. Audition for all the plays you can and don't even mention your paralisis. If a director says anything about it tell him you would like to discuss it with him in private. By all means give acting a try. audition for all the plays you can,.Acting advice...help?
    Of course you could, but it would likely limit your roles. You might not be the romantic lead all the time.





    If you're talented, you could be a great dramatic actor, and a great character actor. Think shows like ER, Grey's Anatomy, CSI, etc...





    Stage acting could also be great as it's harder to see the finer details from the audience!!





    Good luck.
    You can do anything you want too! I'm physically disabled (a minor limp when I walk) and I'm still able to get casted in my high school productions. I realize that high school productions are probably not the same to a ';real'; audition. But, the same principles apply.





    Do what makes you happy, a minor disability shouldn't set you back. ever!
    I don't know maybe. I wouldn't have a problem with it, but Hollywood is based on appearances way too much. They think everyone is a size 0 supermodel.





    Good luck in your endeavors!!
    I don't see why not. The director can then accentuate your other qualities and talents.
    Maybe in a character role.

    Ideas for earning an income from web site based around giving advice/helping people?

    Is it possible to start a website to give advice and support to people and earn an income from doing so?





    Ive heard of adsense, how does this really work and is it effective?





    What other ways would there be to earn a living, while helping others online? (im not looking to become rich, just a modest income would be more than ok)





    Anyone have any original ideas which would be used for a web site in this area? (support, drug, abuse, relationship advice)





    I have a few ideas but want something unique, effective, different - perhaps like a phone counsilling service online!





    ANything, anyone?





    ThanksIdeas for earning an income from web site based around giving advice/helping people?
    You could create a blog site, that also utilizes Google Adsense (a service that provides target adds for your site based on your content).





    If you have something that you are very passionate about, and you really feel that you can add to the group consciousness that is the internet, then go for it.





    You will need to market your site, and read up on how to drive more visitors to your site. You even see many people marketing there site here on Yahoo Answers, by trying to say their site has the answer to whatever the daily questions are :). But, that is really frowned on .. as it is really spam.





    You really should concentrate on marketing the normal ways, maybe even buying into Google Adsense and placing adds with them, that drive traffic to your site, or join banner networks etc..





    There are so many ways to market your site. But the easiest, is still through word of mouth.. Try to find a niche that is not being filled, and fill that with as much passion as you can. And over time, people will come as they and there friends find your site, and tell others of what you have there for them to learn from.Ideas for earning an income from web site based around giving advice/helping people?
    Hi my idea about helping others make an income and change their lives while you get paid is this.Open an online home based travel business,you own an online travel website just like expedia travelocity who is our patner.Point people to your site to book travel you get paid,educate people on how to do the same you get paid and they get paid.no selling involed no quota.you can even become a travel consultant teaching and helping non profit organizations raise money
    Don't be fooleed about any quick rich scam!!





    I recomend you learn, and get good tools for start.





    So I don't recomend you those books of $97, $150...





    Because all of them is not for become rich, they are for becoming more rich than you are now. So if you are not rich now, forget them. All of them are based in huge opt in list (that in starts you don't have), huge amount of visitors to your website (that in starts you don't have)...





    So if you are starting I recomend one package I've bought a month ago, and was a very good deal:


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    (this is not an affiliate link, so I recomend you honestly)
    That sounds easy enough, however, what credentials would you bring that would cause a poster to believe in you? If you're confident of your skills and abilities, you can always charge for your answers.
    This is what you are looking for,





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    Help!! I need Y!A advice!! Help!! Plz!!? 10 points for best answer!!???? It's pretty easy!!!????!!!!?

    All i need is things to talk about over the phone and in person. Please i can't think of anything. So i need YOUR help. Can you keep it apporite, thank you!!Help!! I need Y!A advice!! Help!! Plz!!? 10 points for best answer!!???? It's pretty easy!!!????!!!!?
    ok..


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    Please help. Need advice on leech removal and disposal?

    I have a new furry little friend (we'll call him Ernie). I am quite fond of Ernie but the problem is he has 2 leeches (we'll call one Briley and the other Goddess) attached to him that I can't figure out how to get rid of. I don't want to get rid of Ernie or trade him for a new friend but these 2 leeches are getting in the way. What is the most effective and painful method of getting rid of leeches?Please help. Need advice on leech removal and disposal?
    WHAT?? Goddess is married?? well now, this changes absolutely nothingPlease help. Need advice on leech removal and disposal?
    Never poison or burn a leech they will vomit and that poison will enter the bloodstream of the host.





    The correct method is to peel them off with a knife from the mouth. Thus prevent them contaminating the blood.





    However in the case of Goddess just tell her Ernie hates the Saints (Football team). This will cause a split that will allow you to get the knife in and peel her off.





    _()_
    Surprise attacks always work best in this case. You go at Ernie with both hands of course and proceed to grab those 2 leeches and pull them off slowly. Once you've removed them from the source, you should keep them in a glass jar on your shelf for future reference in how the leech works. You might also score some tips from them.
    First, you have to eat a furry fish taco, a really spicy one. Then spray your FFT breath all over the ';leeches';. One of two things will happen. They will either shrivel up and die. Or they will get really turned on. If the second happens, you have a whole new problem on your hands.
    First, it's a lot more likely that you're dealing with ticks


    rather than leeches.


    For either, get some matches. Burn one, blow it out and expose the parasite's rear to the hot head. (It may take more than one per parasite.)


    Usually they will withdraw and let go.


    Then brush them off and squash them.
    Obviously, start a rumor that the leeches have herpes. Apple herpes and Turtle herpes, the two most virulent strains.





    Then you can reassure ';Ernie'; that you always practice safe sex by using a rubber...ducky.
    Thar thar, ye wench of lore. Leeches be a good thing ta have, good fer cleansin' thee body and purifyin' thee soul.

    Why doesn't he want to be alone with me? I just want to kiss him.[long story.please help! Advice!] =)

    I've had a crush on him since i met him in the beginning of summer...Everyone could tell he was attracted to me..He's tried to kiss me like 3 times but I always got shy and pushed him away. On one of those nights, i told him i had a crush on him and then I let him kiss me.after that, i went on a trip and he asked my sister about me and she said i didn't mean anything i said or did that night.but he still came to my house when i got back to say happy birthday to me.i hadnt seen him for about a month since then bc after that, he got a dui after a frat hazing.he's also really dorky and probably thought i wasnt interested so i made the first move by inviting him over to watch a movie at my house and he said yes.i asked him for friday but he was busy so he asked me out to the movies monday night (he's friends with my brother and asked him if it was ok to take me to the movies) but on the ';date'; he brought his brother and his gf..which i thought was weird. It didnt seem like a date and he didnt try to make a move but we had a great time tho and talked a lot and by the end of the night he said we should hang out again soon (he seemed kinda nervous, during the movie his leg kept bouncing and when he spoke to me he got really close to my face). The other night he asked my brother if he could come over our house to hang out but my brother didnt want to pick him up. so i texted him a week ago about hanging out one friday and he seemed excited about it..so i texted him again yesterday to see if he was busy tomorrow night and he said he couldnt come cuz he had work..but said we should do it another day of the week for sure...the weird thing is...he told me to invite 2 other friends too...why? I wanted to be alone with him. (I'm 18, he's 20 by the way and im leaving for NYU aug 24) I'm just really confused lol what should i do? i dont want to seem pushy and keep bothering him but he's obviously not getting the idea (i just want to make out with him..thats it..nothing serious since im leaving anyway)..any advice would be great! =)Why doesn't he want to be alone with me? I just want to kiss him.[long story.please help! Advice!] =)
    jump on him. if he has tryed to kiss you then that means he wants to kiss you alot!! so just go out with him one night and let it happen. or you can start it. just dont let yourself stop it. you said you want it. so let it happen...Why doesn't he want to be alone with me? I just want to kiss him.[long story.please help! Advice!] =)
    kiss him embrace him in perfect chance
    he might know what you are trying to do...only make out with him. it seems like he doenst want the same thing. he might want a serious relationship and doesnt want to end up getting hurt. he wants you to bring friends so that it will be harder for you to kiss him. he wants to take things slow. but you need to tell him that you arent looking for a serious realationship that you only want to mess around.good luck


    Answer mine!


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    Well, first... he had a dui so that is clue number one he is not the one to go after. But if you persue him then find a place and time he would not feel nervous being around you.. Sounds like he likes you, but he can't pik you up for dates, etc. and may be embarrased about it. Just go with the flow and see what happens. Maybe you can get together before you leave town and see what happens. Plus if you are heading to school, you will meet so many more ppl there so maybe you need to let this one go...
    there is no way you are 18 talking about pre-teen stuff like this. lol





    just flat out be like, no, i just want to hang out with you. Just you and me.





    and if he is 20, why can't he drive himself to your house?

    Help? my friend needs dating advice... help?

    my friend is a fat cow and we ask him'; got milk'; he likes this girl and I'm dating that girl that he likes but is to stubborn to admit it because the only dating experience he has is because he dated his ... nvm, yeah so I'm trying to make him jealous. its working but i need it to work faster.Help? my friend needs dating advice... help?
    just really annoy him !Help? my friend needs dating advice... help?
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    if you take too long does your head explode?

    Need tips, advice, help on breeding my Puggle with Great Dane and Yorkipoo with my Labrador. Please help!?

    OK, I want to breed my 2 year old Puggle (Lila) with my 5 year old Great Dane (Henry). I also want to breed my 1 year old Yorkipoo (Jessica) with my beautiful chocolate Labrador (Ziggy) who is 9 months old. I really want to do it because it will be fun and I am 24 with a 7 year old daughter (Katya) so I think it will be fun for her to watch my babies (Lila and Jessica) give birth.


    I have never bred things before (except my pet mice when I was 9) but that was by accident - I didn't know girl mice could have babies until 4 years old.


    How do I go about breeding my Yorkipoo (1 yr) with my Lab (9 mths) and my Great Dane (5 yr) and my Puggle (2 yr)?


    I need TIPS, ADVICE (pref. good but will listen to all) and HELP (LOTS OF HELP PLEASE!).





    I want to create two new breeds of dogs. I think it could be fun picking names.


    Puggle (Pug x Beagle) x Great Dane = Great Duggle OR Gupple Puggie.


    Yorkipoo (Poodle x Yorki) x Labrador = Yorkipoo Retriever OR Yorkipooador.


    How much do I sell pups 4Need tips, advice, help on breeding my Puggle with Great Dane and Yorkipoo with my Labrador. Please help!?
    Well, it has to be done on St. Valentines Day..Get ready for a big celebration..Serve both males oysters on the shell, and play their favorite music, ';Who let the dogs out'; ...Then give them all 4 a nice bath in the jacuzzi..Once they have dired, and the girls have painted their nails, light candles, and give them 2 hours of privacy..by morning, you should have puppies on the way...if you don't have pups in about 63 days, try it again on the next Valentine's Day..


    best of luck to you!Need tips, advice, help on breeding my Puggle with Great Dane and Yorkipoo with my Labrador. Please help!?
    UHm....... O_o...


    I'm quite shocked that someone would ask this. If you're actually serious, think about your responsibility as an adult to show your child how to take care of animals. Saying that you want to breed these dogs... It sounds like you're close to forcing them to. Isn't that, in the human world, called rape?


    The other people who have answered have said very valid points and I suggest you listen to most of them. Size is a huge thing when breeding, your little yorkie can't hope to survive anything that you're suggesting.


    You also have to look at laws in your city. Breeding mice is one thing but dogs and cats have bylaws in place to make sure that overbreeding doesn't happen. Ever heard of a puppy mill? That's pretty much what you're planning to do. Most cities won't allow more than two or three dogs in a house hold. what you're suggesting is that you want to keep 12 or more puppies (not to mention the four that you've already got) in your house without even looking into the legal repricussions of your actions.


    I highly suggest against breeding anything.


    The last thing that your daughter needs is to see her parent add to the strays on the streets.


    In short. Don't do it please? You'll hurt the dogs and hurt your daughter when the pups die or the mother dogs die. Just don't. If you want your daughter to learn the beautiful cycles of life, buy her some sea monkeys.


    Sorry to sound harsh,


    ~Manda








    Edit: To say again, I'm not trying to attack anything you've said but please don't breed the dogs. There's already too many unwanted pets out there. There is a chance that some of these pups won't get adopted. And to be honest, I've never heard of people paying upwards of $100 for a mongrel breed.


    And with your lab, didn't the breeder ask you to sign a spay/neuter contract when you bought him?


    And I'm also curious how you were able to buy all these dogs? They're not cheep to get, and keep. Just curious.
    i dont think that you are a 24 yr old with a kid and if you are i feel very srry for her... and if you do indeed have these dogs or any pets i think that you should have them taken away because you clearly have no feelings for them or the fact that we are over ran with dogs that no one wants now... and any smart person would know you cant breed a small female with such a large male because the puppies will be to big for her to have them it would probably kill all the pups and her... my advice to you is get a brain and stop bugging people about such stupid stuff. hey go to your vet and ask him the same questions and tell him how you feel about it and that you have no money to take care of the problem when she has one and hopefully he will turn you into spca and take your dogs from you
    Your females are too small to carry puppies that carry genes from large breed dogs.





    It's also physically impossible for your males to penetrate your females without seriously hurting, or even killing, them.





    If you absolutely HAVE to breed them, then find someone that has a male Yorkipoo and a male Puggle to breed to the females you have. Ask them if they'll allow you to use their males for breeding purposes. Expect to pay a stud fee ($200+). At least then you're breeding puppies that are the same designer breeds as their parents, and the females won't have trouble with being bred or giving birth (assuming they are able to have a normal labor and delivery, which is never guaranteed; emergencies do happen).





    I can't help but assume that your question is a joke meant to rile people.
    You've got to be kidding. God I hope so. Nobody can be that stupid.
    I suggest you consult your vet.





    The breeds you are talking about all have genetic defects that professional breeders try to prevent by selectively breeding only the animals that don't carry the disease.


    If your pets were purchased from reputable breeders you can check their papers for health history. If not, don't breed.





    You would not be creating a new breed. Just a new mutt. AKC only recognizes pure breeds. The popular designer/hybrid dogs like the kind you own are in their 3rd and 4th generations of professional, highly regulated breeding. That is if your dogs were purchased from a qualified professional breeder. If not they are mutts too. So you would be breeding mutts from mutts.





    Whelping can dangerous and tragic especially if you don't know what you are doing. If you love your pets you wouldn't do this.





    Is the risk worth $25. Max price for mutts from a garage.





    As a side note, find a better way to teach your daughter about the facts of life. Humans are not dogs. A mother dog doesn't have to counsel her puppies not to make the same mistakes she made when she was 17 years old. Try to stop the cycle of teenage pregnancy. A litter of puppies does not replaced responsible active parenting.





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    HMMM...I didn't call you a teenage sl*t, but now that I know about your underage drinking I might. Or was it a pepsi that was drugged?





    No wait you said ';spiked';. Somehow I find that even less credible. Your saying you couldn't taste the alcohol in your drink? Why didn't you pour it out? If it was not your kind of party why didn't you leave immediately?





    I didn't say you made a mistake. My responses are based on the information you provided. If your being a teen mother wasn't important why did you include it? If you weren't trivializing the issue by calling it (reproduction, birth) ';fun'; maybe it would not be perceived in the way that it is.





    I question your judgement because you think it is cute that a 7 year old has a boyfriend. I hope noone spikes her juice at Chuckie Cheese.





    Do you really want your daughter to struggle trying to raise a kid?





    If you had your wish would you wish that she can go to and graduate from college and get a good paying job?





    Or would you wish she had a life just like yours, working two jobs and pimping out her dogs for extra cash?








    ***If you read my first response again you will see that I am only encouraging you to parent your child. You are very defensive.





    You should put your child's needs first.








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    You know what? I'm going to stop here. You had me at ';teached';. You debate waaay too well for me to handle! You win!!





    I'm over, I'm done. Talking to you is a waste of my time.





    By the way, drinking age is 21 not 18. Where do you live? We know you don't live with your daughter unless you all are still living with mommy and daddy too, oh, sorry grandpa and grandma. They will do a good job with her because you turned out so well. You are such a prize. I bet they are really proud of you. You're just like a doctor...almost.





    I will pray for your daughter. You are a lost cause.





    Good bye. Expect no more responses from me.
    You are sooooo joking with this question.
    I pray this question is a joke...if not I think the humane society should come and conficate your pets from you. You are an unfit pet owner. I won't even touch what kind of a parent you are!
    If you don't know anything about breeding, you shouldn't be doing it. For a start, your labrador should be hip scored to make sure it doesn't have dysplasia and have it's eyes tested. Both bitches should be fully checked to ensure that they are fit to carry puppies and why are you mixing all these breeds without studying the breed standards to ensure that you are not introducing potential problems. Responsible breeders spend years weeding out health problems to create the best possible bloodline and ensure healthy dogs that do not suffer because of health problems. You make this sound like a canine version of My Little Pony. You shouldn't go any further without gettin a LOT of advice from the Kennel Club.
    I'd advise against it because you have small breed females and large breed males. The puppies will be too large for the female to carry to term.
    ridiculous
    I am assuming that you are joking.





    However, if you're not, I would check with the breeders you got your dogs from and your vet for advice if you decide to do this. Dog breeding is risky, expensive, and time-consuming.





    You shouldn't count on being able to sell the puppies (even for $50, let alone $500), because you are not going to end up with purebred puppies or even purebred-cross puppies. Unfortunately, there is not a large market for dogs that are mixes of 3-4 different types of dogs (just take a walk around your local animal shelter). In fact, the local animal shelter might be where these puppies end up if you can't find homes for them.
    2 pts is all that is worth anything here!
    you and your girl get naked and flirt with the male dogs while on all 4 and teach the females how its done.
    If you can imagine having sex with a horse, and then having multiple 25 pound children, that is what u will be putting your ';babies'; through. Not considering the nursing requirments that they will be going through. Look, you are not qualified for this and you WILL kill your dogs and the puppies.
    You're breeding four dogs together because you think it'll be fun? First you need to think about how many pups you're likely to get, and who'll take them off your hands. Is it going to be easy to find homes for 10+ animals quickly? You cannot keep that many dogs if you can't find a home for them, so they'll end up at the pound or euthanised if no one wants them. Also; is there a big size difference between the dogs? Can a little yorkie carry great dane or lab puppies? Can they give birth without veterinary treatment? Onto that, can you afford vaccinations, worming and health checks for 10+ pups? Have you got the space to have 10+ half/fully grown pups to run around? How stressful on the dogs is it going to be if you live in a small apartment or house? What messed up instincts and health problems might the puppies face due to their mixed breeding? Please at least seek the advice of your local vet before you breed the dogs.
    SPAY AND NEUTER YOUR PETS AND WEIRD RELATIVES INCLUDING YOURSELF!
    You have NO reason to be breeding.


    Have your pets SPAYED AND NEUTERED
    Someone should call the humane society on you. You're trying to kill your dogs through unbearable labour.





    Dog's arn't fashion accessories with cute names. I hope your parents can explain that too you, (I hope you arn't an adult).
    dog viagra, candlelight, soft music and a good steak dinner for the lucky, if not weird, different breeds

    I masturbate with my pillow, advice to help me stop?

    Ive been doing it since i was 10 and now im 16! I just cant stop it feels soo good. But i really need to stop, its taking over my life! please help!!!I masturbate with my pillow, advice to help me stop?
    Don't listen to the mean responses. I used to do the same thing. I would sort of hump my favorite pillow. It's just friction and pressure and it feels good. It doesn't matter what method you use, masturbation is normal and nothing to be ashamed of.





    You don't have to stop completely but you need to develop other hobbies so that it doesn't take over your life. I got involved in high school sports. I wasn't that good but it gave me something to occupy my time, made me physically fit, and gave me a goal to focus on.I masturbate with my pillow, advice to help me stop?
    Masturbating with a pillow is an atypical form of masturbation called Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome, or TMS. It causes severe sexual dysfunctions in most males who practice it. You can learn more about TMS and how to overcome it at HealthyStrokes.com.





    Basically, you can stop for a week and then learn to masturbate the way most guys do it.
    You don't have a problem unless 1. you can't enjoy masturbation with you hand (or sex with a partner when your old enough) or 2. you won't leave your house for school because your playing with your pillow.





    Train yourself to enjoy it without a pillow, keep your friends, leave your room some times and have fun man.





    Relax..
    You need to wear protection, before it gives birth to some small cushions...





    Try to broaden the relationship with your pillow beyond mere casual sex. Take it out for dinner, talk to it about your feelings, buy it some new clothes (or pillowcases).
    Try to ween yourself off the pillow (without hurting its feelings) try a sofa cushion and the maybe move on to other soft furnishings like the curtains or the mattress and who knows in 10-15 years you may be able to move on to the real thing. In the meantime keep on beating the meat.....
    i think you need to make your self busy in able you can resist your temptation. and if you want to masturbate and you don't want to use a pillow, try to use your hand.
    You do not need to stop masturbating your pillow. Since you say it feels so good why stop? I masturbate a velvet pillow and if feels great! I been using my pillow for the past 4 years. I am 36 and been masturbating since I was 11.
    Masturbation sort of ';takes over your life'; for many people your age, regardless of what you use to do it.





    How many times a day do you do it? Have you tried it without your pillow?
    Ok, I would suggest ending it with your pillow and trying something better. Try maybe banana wormed for like 5 - 10 secs in the microwave. Its the best masturbation technique i have tried.
    Mastrubating is normal. I used a pilliow when i was 10-12, theres nothing wrong.
    If that pillow gets pregnant, you're going to have to marry it.








    j0e
    cover it with sandpaper.
    who still uses a pillow when ur 16? either find a girl or use your hand, feg
    Buy youself a sex blow-up doll !!
    get a girl friend u freak
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  • Is there any 15 year old 16st male hu gets suicidal and depressed, out there?advice?help?

    Only you can change mate - i was 25 and 22 stone and made a change to my life. I lost about 9 stone and feel better. I aint gonna tell you it is easy cos it aint but it is worth it!! I feel, look and act like a different person. You need to make that change and believe me it is worth it. Good luck..........Is there any 15 year old 16st male hu gets suicidal and depressed, out there?advice?help?
    I know this will sound clich茅 but it's the inside that matters. If your not happy about your size you can loose weight, it can be difficult at first but the right help and you'll do it. I just did it recently. Pls don't get suicidal about it, because I am sure there are people that love you regardless of your size. If your depressed pls talk to someone you trust, maybe your parents or see your GP. Plus I don't know whether you've noticed but some of the skinniest people can have the worst personalities, why because they are only skin deep.Is there any 15 year old 16st male hu gets suicidal and depressed, out there?advice?help?
    there is loads of help!! helplines, weight loss groups, getting into activites and meeting new people will build your self asteem, when people are in a place like you, and believe me, huge amounts of people do, they seem to forget all the help thats out there for you, because they start to feel sorry for themselves, you just have to believe in yourself and search for help, wether its on the internet or people around you, never feel alone because you truely never are if you have the will power to help yourself!!


    Stay happy and never forget your Alone!
    Let me tell you something that could possibly change your whole outlook on life...your beautiful regardless.





    You look at your body and you probably hate it, but you have to learn to love it before you can loose it.





    I understand how you feel so much, I'm a female and I've always been quite curvy and chunky but I had to learn to love it because It's me.





    Just begin to healthy eat and perhaps try starting the gym with a friend who's quite motivating..





    I think you have to believe in yourself before you can change. Your still young, the world is your oyster, do what YOU need to do to make your life happy babe. x x x
    well that person is not me. but i just wanted to say that first of all im not gunna say mean ****. beacuse NO ONE on here can know what your going threw or how your life is. all i have to say it hun no matter what u need to keep your head up and know that things do get better . sometimes it takes a long time but it does get better. and being depressed is only putting you down more and more each and everyday !


    and thinking about killing yourself. !! not good. if you think this way you should go see someone. or at least try talking to someone. dont get everything thats going on in your life all bottled up cuz when you finally explode it doesnt do you good or the people around you. i hope things get better for you :). and keep your head up! even when its hard to think positive . its always better. well anyways i probably didnt help much . but i really hope everything works out for you sweetie . :)
    Accept that it is your fault about your weight and get down the gym and burn it off! I feel exactly the same, day in day out. You are 15 and half my age, and I feel like im 60! You have your whole life ahead of you,
    talk to your gp, or phone a help line. If you have feelings of depresion you should talk to somene about it in the medical proffesssion.
    i get to a massive state of bordom i sometimes think kill me now but you just drown them out with uplifting dance tracks of the 90s and raveeeeeee, just whack the speakers up
    lols no im not emo try to be happy man
    dont be a baby your life isnt that bad.

    Hi all I really need advice? Please help its very important?

    I worked for a seasonal tax company as a branch manager for 6months. It was my first year I also worked as a tax preparer. 15 days before my branch was closing I got call from headquarters and they informed me the bank deposit and the accounts are not matching. On investigation they found I was supposed to deposit money every day instead of lump some of two days or so they never provide me any training on that. After three months of season is over they are telling me that cash is missing so they cannot rehire me How do I know we had four receptionist I tried to match balance as much as I could I was not given any training on that .I am so pissed when they informed me. I have not even taken a penny why me they did no investigation just because I am a manager I am asked to leave. They asked me I did not take any corrective measures against anyone but I was not informed that cash is missing until now when office is closed over three months.


    Please advice what should I do.Hi all I really need advice? Please help its very important?
    Never sign anything that you don't agree with especially tax documents!


    Chalk it up to experience and move on.


    Never do work that you are not paid for! They don't appreciate it and you feel used.


    Let themknow that if they give a derogatory statement like ';she is not rehire able'; when a potential employer contacts them for reference that you intend to sue them for defamation of character. They cannot accuse you of a crime and use that as basis of non-rehireability without giving you a fair trial. They need to accuse you formally (file charges) or remove the suspision from your employment record. Put it in writing and send it to them.Hi all I really need advice? Please help its very important?
    Sue them as a defense. Its the only thing that will clear you. They will have to drag everything out in the daylight, and they will hate that.
    Based on what you are saying you may have a case against the company. Sounds like they have very bad internal control system. Do they require monthly bank reconciliation to be reviewed by and sign off by manager? If the internal control is weak, it could either be the Company's or the manager's (your) fault. Does your job description as a branch manager require that you design and implement internal controls? If not then the Company shouldn't fire you at all. But if your job includes such function, then it is true that you didn't do a good job tightening the controls, but the Company should have warned you before firing you. I do want to mention though if your job description included designing the controls, you can't expect the Company to train you on everything.





    Good luck.
    youre thier fall guy!
    Seriously, you need a good lawyer.





    This could ruin your career if these allegations aren't cleared up and quickly. It doesn't matter if you never want to work there or not, your reputation is at stake. Someone else could be involved in criminal actions here (embezzlement) and letting you take the fall.





    As long as you know you are innocent, I’d go after them until they cried “Uncle”, paid you back pay and punitive damages. You were wrongfully terminated and that gives you a huge advantage.

    I need laptop advice. help!?

    I want tog et a laptop, have for a while. And id like for it to run the sims 3 smoothly. Ive beens earching online but i really dont know much, and i need help with the video card and what not. So if you have any advice please help. Oh and id like to spend a MAX of appx. $600


    Thanks! :DI need laptop advice. help!?
    Check out Sony vaio sites..





    My advices, if you want to play SIMS smoothly,


    Search for the high processor.


    $600 is enough for buy the fast one..





    Don't buy wrong stuff. ask the seller which is has the high speed processor..





    Good Luck!I need laptop advice. help!?
    i would suggest the new dell xps voted best gaming laptop for 2009

    I need advice about if i should keep this job or not? Please help me?

    I need some advice about keeping this job.I like it because it pays 8.50 an hour,I dont like it because I dont have a license or car and I have to depend on other people to take me to these different job sites %26amp; so far the audit machine is confusing but this is just my second store.My job is RGIS,Retail Grocer Inventory Specialists,we got to press different stuff in this machine thing so we can scan different products and such and I dont understand it yet,well its just my 4th day.Should I keep it for now on or find a different job?I need advice about if i should keep this job or not? Please help me?
    Keep trying for at least a month. If at that time you don't like the job then start looking for another. Don't quit until you have another job and tell any potential new employer that you need to give at least two weeks notice to the job you're at. Tell them that you don't want to leave the other place with no warning and that the reason that you are looking for another job is that you feel there is no real future with the old job. This will make them think you are a good, conscientious employee who has his employers interests in mind, making you a good employee for them.I need advice about if i should keep this job or not? Please help me?
    Ride it out for like two weeks at least and see once you understand what is going on if you really can't stand it. Of course you are going to want to give up when you're learning something new - but do you want to learn to be a good worker and make good money and go far in life or do you want to be a pussy and quit your job and sit on the couch at home wishing you had an easy job to do stuff you already know? Hmm... money, no money, money, no money.
    Any skill is usually a good skill, after four days you haven't received any experience yet. As for your ';barriers'; to employment they will always be there until you overcome the ';barrier';. My advice overcome your materialistic limitations by offering to pay for gas or make arrangements with your co-workers that are driving you such as ';Friday's lunch is on me';.





    How old are you? Did you lose your licence? Is there reliable public transportation? How costly are cabs? Work it out and keep your job. The more you learn the more you earn!!!

    Help!!! I Want a girl friend in High school but I am akward, I need advice on how to start a relationship?

    i am akward but realy want a girlfriend in highschool. i need dating advice and i need help to meet and start relationships with girls like where to meet them and how to get to boyfriend status. how do i go from friend to boyfriend. i have already asked a similar question but am getting no responses i need help!!!!Help!!! I Want a girl friend in High school but I am akward, I need advice on how to start a relationship?
    HAHA.First things first. YOU'RE TRYING TOO HARD. Hahaha. Girls usually think awkward boys are cute. Don't change your look for a girl, but do take more time than you usually do to get ready. Obviously take showers daily. Uhm, when you shop get nice clothes that are really YOU. Your clothes usually reflect your personality. Maybe try American Apparel it has a large variety, but is still kind of casual. If you like a girl make sure she's available first. If she is, don't ask her out right away or she'll instantly say no because she wasn't expecting it. Flirt with her be really charming(andyourself). Once you see you guys are on a good level, mention hanging out or going somewhere to do something that you know she's intrested in. Also Join sports and groups. And remember that the internet is the WORST place to meet a girl.


    GOODLUCK. More questions just ask. :DHelp!!! I Want a girl friend in High school but I am akward, I need advice on how to start a relationship?
    If there is a specific girl in question, how well do you know her? are you nice to her? do you have common interests? In high school if you want a girlfriend who isn't some superficial cheerleader/prep-type person, a good start is becoming good friends with a girl, it can get you closer to them, and you'll become more comfortable with her. Maybe if you're lucky she'll start to like you which can make your job even easier. But once you feel you have some chemistry together just ask her out, just on a simple date, like a movie. If its a girl who's never had a boyfriend and seems awkward herself, it'll be a mutual experience and you'll get more comfortable together which could bring you guys closer, thats what happened for me and my first girlfriend.
    Always be yourself, If you find a girl that you have alot in common with, talk to all the time, Start doing cute things for her. Its the small things you do that can make girls fall for you like the snap of a finger. Ive had plenty of relationships in my time and thats how it all starts, always keep conversation about things she likes, and do little cute things, say corny stuff thats cute towards the girl. The rest is all on your own. Be yourself, don't ask too many questions back to back, allyou gotta do is give it time. I talked to this girl i knew for about 2 months before we had our first kiss, then it lead to a relationship.
    Ok dude the first thing that you need to try and do is take good care of yourself. I'm not saying to start working out or anything (even though that would help), but maybe do your hair a little different. Don't be afraid to find your own style. Just do things that will help to increase some of the confidence you have in your self, and that will come out to the girls. All girls respond to confidence, but not *********. Just make sure you know the difference. Also talk to them and be interested in the conversation, and also flirt. I'm not going to get into how to flirt if you need help on that to just ask. A question on how to flirt will probably get a lot of answers.
    just be your self and if nobody likes you becos of that then sorey you may end up old %26amp;%26amp; alone. um nah just well maybe um well iidk sorey!





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    Just try to start a conversation about what your doing or her classes and stuff. Have confidence, but don't be corky:)
    try to be yourself dude, and it should work out, try to meet some girls in class
    dont take yourself to serious, loosen up, and maybe lower your standards just a '''little'''' bit...guy just talk to some chick in class and if shes not taken hit her up
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  • Second Life (the game)...lag and crash...advice, help?

    I have started to play second life (www.secondlife.com) So far I stink at it. But I get the general idea. Anyway, I use Vista and I read that you could update your drivers on the blog, but I went to the ATL website or whatever it is and couldn't figure out what the heck I needed to download, b/c I don't know the first thing about my drivers in my computer. SL crashes on me constantly and the lag is terrible. Is there anything I can do? I downloaded the most recent version today, but saw that they recalled it? I dunno, I am confused though. Any suggestions or things I can look forward to with this problem?Second Life (the game)...lag and crash...advice, help?
    As per the Second Life website, Windows Vista is not supported. See: http://secondlife.com/corporate/sysreqs.鈥?/a>





    I have a friend in-game who uses Vista, he used to crash every 5 minutes. He's stopped playing now because it got very frustrating.Second Life (the game)...lag and crash...advice, help?
    I had the same problem, despite lag and everything else, I managed to pick out clothes and learned how to fly and all that other stuff. After trying to play with that constant lag all the time, i just gave up out of frustration. I have DSL, and its pretty fast, so i don't know where that lag was coming from.
    go for a virus scan


    delete every u dont need ect
    lag and crash is usually everyones problem.


    chances are you may have the right computer though


    you should submit a support ticket to linden labs via the SL website.
    that thing crashes and locks up all the time. I wonder if they will ever get that problem fixed, not much you can do they have minimum requirements but you really need the best comp. out there to make it smooth.

    Antidepressant help and advice?

    I have been taking prozac for a few days, can it make your depression worse before it gets better? Especially at night time?Antidepressant help and advice?
    I was taking sertraline(Zoloft) and only made it five days. It was prescribed to me for anxiety, though, not depression. the first day I took it, I found myself crying for no reason. I felt sedated constantly and was very disconnected from my world. The third day I found myself asking what the hell I ususally feed my daughter. By the fifth day, the anxiety and depression were so bad I almost became an inpatient. I stopped taking it without asking my doctor, but I knew it was bad news. Maybe, had I stuck it out longer, it would have worked for me, but I was unwilling to find out. This was just my personal reaction to ONE SSRI, not to say everyone would react that way. Yes, your problems may get worse before getting better, ESPECIALLY if in this case you are switching medications, but even if not. If you start to feel really down or have thoughts of suicide, call your doctor ASAP. I noticed that when I took the zoloft, I would take it at bedtime and I did not sleep very well. I began to feel human again the next day around a few hours before my next dose was due. So maybe you could find a way to sleep through the side effects when they are at their worst? I kept a journal and recorded how I felt at what times everyday in relation to taking my dosage to figure this out. Maybe that could help? But yeah, the side effects suck at first, but they should go away, if they get bad enough to the point where you cannot handle it anymore, call your Dr. and tell them EXACTLY what you are feeling. Good luck, trying new meds sucks. Hopefully this is the one that will work for you.Antidepressant help and advice?
    As a psychiatrist, I have prescribed Prozac many times, and in some people it may either cause insomnia or could actually make depression worse. If your experiencing any of these symptoms call your Psychiatrist immediately, as it may be a bad reaction with your medication. Good Luck.





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    yes it take a couple of weeks before they start kicking in. this what piss me of about doctor they tell you nothing. look at the leaflet that comes with the tablets.
    yes definatly... you have to really keep up with it to see the benefits.

    Please help, need advice for future career?

    I want to be a defence lawyer as my future career, but ZI'm not sure what units to take in university (need 10 i think). Please try hel,p me if you have knowledge of the system?Please help, need advice for future career?
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    Please be aware of what you are proposing on getting yourself into. Please do more research first.





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    Warning%26gt; Jobs in the field of Law are drying up fast!! This is just not a good field to invest time and/or money into. This is a SHRINKING, crumbling, and dying vocational field. Many reasons. Many people today (mistakenly) think they can do their own legal work, thanks to the Internet. Also, we simply already have way too many Legal Professionals - we have an absolute glut!! (';Legal Professionals'; includes, but is not limited to: Attorneys/Lawyers, Paralegals, Legal Assistants, Legal Secretaries, Bailiffs, Court Reporters, etc, etc)





    Employers (usually law firms) in the field of Law today want employees with degrees from traditional colleges/universities. Those ';certificates'; you see advertised aren't worth the paper they are printed on - they are generally scams. (I found this out the hard way.)





    Cost of law school to be lawyer, approx $150,000+.


    Be prepared to take on a lot of debt.%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;





    Even if you finish law school, you won't be able to find a job when you are done. Since this vocational field is shrinking, many new attorneys/lawyers are, themselves, having to work ';down'; as Paralegals, Legal Assistants, Legal Secretaries, Bailiffs, Court Reporters, etc, etc, to simply try to keep some of their bills paid %26lt;%26lt;this would be your competition. And the competition is fierce!!





    Now... the law schools know this, but they won't tell you the truth %26gt;that the job market/economy is just saturated with way too many Legal Professionals. Instead the schools will feed you a fairytale and will lie to you. The root of the problem is we have too many law schools. We are in a recession, and the schools are fighting for their own survival - they will tell students anything to get to the students' money. (Which is why they won't tell you the truth about the job market for the field of Law.) And these schools continue to recruit and churn out even more graduates.............Remember: law schools are BUSINESSES, and their first concern is making money for themselves.





    If you don't believe me, then just do a search here on Yahoo Answers to see what other posters are saying about the current status of the field of Law. Call some local law firms - ask to speak to the Manager of Human Resources - ask them if they are hiring; ask them what they think about job availability in the field of Law..................





    In the book ';So You Want to be a Lawyer?'; by Marianne Calabrese and Susanne Calabrese (ISBN 0-88391-136-1): ';The United States has more lawyers than any other country in the world. About 38,000 students graduate %26gt;each year%26lt; from the 200+ law schools in the United States. The competition is very keen for jobs and clients.'; - Even Associate Justice Antonin Scalia (who served on the U.s. Supreme Court for more than 20 years) says there are too many lawyers. (9/14/2008)





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    Good luck.








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    don't be lawyer.. all lawyers are liar. they help people win even they're guilty just to have money. greedy people! better yet get some honest career instead.

    Does laser treatment for acne really help? what are the effects? is it worth it? What is your advice to me? :)?

    I am a 21 year old who has been suffering with acne for a long time. I tried everything possible from seeing a dermatologist, trying things over the counter and a lot of research online. Ive come to a conclusion that I would maybe want to do a laser treatment for acne. Is there anyone who has been through the same problem as I have and did the laser treatment. If so what is your advice to me? How does it work? Did it really help? Is it worth it?Does laser treatment for acne really help? what are the effects? is it worth it? What is your advice to me? :)?
    I don't know if this helps, but my did the same thing. She still gets the occasional pimple or two every so often, but it was a lot better then it used to be.

    Party Planning Advice. Please Help?!?

    I need ideas on arranging a very upscale and classy surprise party for hubby's 35th birthday. I only have a little over a month to get this event up and running. Anyone have any ideas?Party Planning Advice. Please Help?!?
    Check with some of the nicer clubs, restaurants, resorts in your area. A lot of them have private rooms that you can host a great party. They also have staff that can do everything for you, from food, drinks, themes %26amp; decorating. If you do it @ a hotel or resort you can get cheaper room prices to invite your guests to stay so no D.U.I's. Good luck. Happy b-day hubby : )Party Planning Advice. Please Help?!?
    I would go to foodnetwork and pick a theme based on the food.





    For a friends party this past weekend, very upscale, it was on the water, she got a nice caterer and it was a cuban theme party. There were mojitos everywhere... it was awesome.
    do a theme of a party something that he likes like say he likes cars do a car theme say he likes money! do a party where its all about money and tell the guest that are going to be at his party to bring him money instead of a gift
    Why not pick one of his favorite restaurants and hold it there. They will do most of the work, and cleaning up that way. If you're having a party at a restaurant there really isn't much else you would need to plan. As far as inviting people, just have some invitations made, maybe with a younger picture of him on them and make sure to ask people to only RSVP to an email address or a phone number there is no way he would catch on to!

    Please help diet advice very important?

    ok i am going away in about a month and i would like to lose atleast 8 pds i am 5'4 116 pounds is it possible that just by eatin fruit and veggies for 2 weeks and moderatley exercise will i lose weight?Please help diet advice very important?
    Weight loss is easiest when you decrease your caloric intake and increase you exercise You take in less calories than you burn. Eating fruits and vvegetablesis okay, but you have to look and see the calories of the foods your eating. Some veggies have little or no calories, celery, but they also do not have any real nutritional value aside from fiber. If you are cutting out your proteins (meat) be sure that the fruits and veggies replace what you are missing nutritionally. As far as eexercise goes, cardio has always been the best for my personal weight loss.





    Honestly though at 116, you may not want to loose weight, how about toning what you already have. Many people, myself included, have toned up the weight we have and had people ask, ';hey, have you lost weight.'; Just food for thought.Please help diet advice very important?
    Exercise is key in any diet, as well as eating healthy. Eating fruits and vegetables (as you said) are a great alternative to an unhealthy food, so if you feel like eating something unhealthy try and fill yourself up with something healthy so you feel full. Try eating small, more frequent healthy meals, and try not to exceed around 5 hours of not eating because your metabolism slows down. Exercise should happen around 3-4 times a week and try to only drink water, so you don't have to worry about the extra calories in drinks. Hope this helps, and good luck.
    Try eating 5-6 small, healthy meals a day. This will allow you're body to break down the food faster, increasing the speed of you're metabolism. Exercise at least 3 times a week for 30 minutes each. You need to get you're hear rate up, that's how you lose calories. Don't do crash dieting. It works for a few days and then nothing happens because you start to maintain you're weight, and then when you start eating reguarly you will gain more weight than what you lost.
    It will be really hard to sustain your appetite with such a restricted diet.


    You only have to consume fewer calories than you expend to lose weight. You need to do to burn 500 calories per day and eat 500 less than you normally do. Eat smaller portions and exercise your tail off. You should see results in about 4-6 weeks.
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  • Relationship advice needed can you help?

    Me %26amp; my master just moved into a new neighbourhood,hes got a woman( i hear them together its gross) and i'm starting to get lonely,now theres a rough old ginger Tom whos seen better days a coupla doors down %26amp; hes very sweet,then theres this handsome Tabby next door who goes with any,kitty,Shnookums or Mary...but i find him most appealing...what should i do??Relationship advice needed can you help?
    You're only 8 weeks old - be a good kitten now ;)





    Have some catnip instead...





    Come sit on daddy's lap :)


    XRelationship advice needed can you help?
    I think you should try for the old ginger Tom, because the other one is out and about, and you don't know where he's been. Let your master know of your choice, and if he doesn't agree...then howl and make noise everytime he heads to his room with his g/f. That will get his attention. Be prepared, it might not be a good reaction at first.


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    Always satisfy your pussy youngun!
    Well if i were you Jess i'd take up Markys offer %26amp; go sit on his lap....i'm sure you'd have a good time %26amp; he'd rub you up the right way.
    I don't talk to cats
    I got bit by same random tabby cat once. I don't like Cats
    why dnt u start by going back to elementery school, then afta that u can start thinking of how u want ur life to b e
    I`ll send Cleo round, to sort them all out for ya, I`m guessing you are a guy, so other than that?
    play both of them