I need to give my friend advice please help me i want to be a good friend?

So this girl i know (im a guy) was tellin me on how she just had the worst day of her life because this guy and her were supposedly like not in a relationship but she thought that they were like reallly tight , but turns out he doesnt feel that way. So i need to give her RREALLY good advice and i dont know what to say??????I need to give my friend advice please help me i want to be a good friend?
Tell her it is actually the best day of her life, because now she knows how he feels and she can move on and find someone so much better!I need to give my friend advice please help me i want to be a good friend?
I know your friend is hurting now and the best thing you can do is share her pain by holding her hand and letting her talk about it. She probably feels like a failure and is wondering if there's something wrong with her. Reassure her, there's nothing wrong with her, it just wasn't a good fit, that's all. Tell her to hold back her heart until she meets the right one. Here's some advice you might look at with your friend.





Your friend, like many young people doesn't realize there are stages to meeting and getting to know a partner and my guess is she was attracted to him but he was just being friends. Friends can be great together but aren't usually turned on by one another. If one is lusting and the other is not, it's not going anywhere and someone ends up hurt.





There are two kinds of guys and two kinds of girls. The one kind is all about freedom, sex, parties and possibly drinking and drugs. The other kind are serious about not screwing up their future. They are hard working students whose grades are important to them as they are competing to be the best. This type is more interested in being friends until they find the right one, and they don't want to waste their time with different partners, the possibility of pregnancy or disease and the broken hearts that result.They wait for the best fit and act responsibly in a relationship. A guy like this would be a prize and worth waiting for. Try to be a girl like this and you'll win the best man for life.





It takes time to get to know a person. Stage one is the attraction. You feel the vibes and want to get close and see what happens. Stage two is getting to know one another to see what you have in common, whether your sense of humor is alike, whether you enjoy the same activities. Do you share the same spiritual beliefs? Do you plan to go to college? This is an important stage when you get a sense of what and who you are looking for and whether you are truly compatible.This is not the stage for sex because that will confuse you and you'll overlook many flaws in the relationship unless you can stand back without sex and see what's going on. Don't let your heart rule your mind in stage one and two because one of you might bail out here and that means a lot of pain for the one left behind.





Stage 3 is when you decide you're happy together and want to be a couple.You feel you are treated with respect and you are both making an effort to please the other--it's not one sided with one in control or one letting the other do all the work. In this stage you learn to relate as a couple. You solve differences and make compromises and try not to argue over silly things.This is the stage for meeting one another's parents. Parents usually have a sixth sense about whether you'll make it as a couple so listen to them.





This is the stage for building a relationship and finding out how adult you really are. Unfortunately, even if this stage lasts until graduation, there are still no guarantees because when people go to college, they usually break up. This stage is a real testing time for both people. That's why it's important to learn to control your emotions. Don't fill yourself up with fantasies and dreams and pining for your guy or this will cripple you. Fill yourself up with determination to fulfill your personal career ambitions and try not to think of the guy too much. This will allow you both the space you need apart and when you're together, you'll enjoy each other much more and the love will deepen appropriately. Too much too fast is smothering and someone will walk, so be strong. Hope this helps.